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Petey
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Came home, she is drunk, takin on the cell phone to a former BF

I maintain, long enough, to hear the conversation

To which I react by smashing the cell phone and telling her this(not sure what=this) is over

My problem is that I think she was just drunk and it meant nothing

My other problem is that it meant something and I'm out

Liberalism aside----I think I need a change of scenery

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You're married?

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Either way, she is sending you a powerful message.

Time to think about getting some prized possessions out of the house before any more confrontations.

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Politics aside, I agree you need to take stock of what's going on.
And yes if you got anything you want to hang onto it needs to be in a safe place and/or with trusted hands for now.
Above all be as calm and collected as possible you do not want any BS restraining order or charges to fuck you out of your right to own firearms.

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Get most of the guns somewhere safe, Pete.Women will steal your guns and sell them.You may need to keep one to carry, if you are licensed to.Watch out.Ex-BF's can be sneaky.If your woman hates and fears guns and has just been putting up with your morbid fascination with guns, you need to run.Now.

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Smile and take her to the cleaners.
Drunk or not, its not about love anymore.
Time to take a hike.

I'm truly sorry for you, politics aside.
Nobody wins in these deals.

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Petey,

Straight talk here from me. Listen to what the other members here are tellin' ya. Start taking precautions RIGHT FUCKING NOW. If it turns out to be nothing, then you haven't lost anything.

Secure your bank accounts, debit cards, credit cards, etc and do it now. Don't let her start a spending spree with YOUR money and then you end up getting stuck paying off the maxed out credit cards.

If you have children, how old are they? Young enough to cost you big child support payments for a long time? Or are they old enough that you won't get burned too badly? It is a given that a pissed off wife will try to turn your children against you anyway they can.

You mentioned an ex-boyfriend. Be careful here. Your wife and he could be trying to set you up for a royal screwing in a divorce court. Don't let it happen. Find yerself a GOOD EXPERIENCED lawyer who specializes in divorce proceedings. He/she won't be cheap, but they can save you big bucks in the long run.

Do you have a 401K and/or a pension fund? Protect them now. Judges here in Indiana have a nasty habit of awarding soon to be ex-wives a full 50 percent of a future pension or the earnings from a 401K.

If you do seek a divorce, be prepared to put up with a lot of bullshit and hassles from your wife and her shyster. Even if it is her fault, you will be made out to be the bad guy, even with no fault divorce.

Now, maybe all of this advice from a never married bachelor may seem a bit too much. Well, that it up for you to decide. Just remember one thing. Nobody fucks ya over like yer family or friends and it sounds like your wife is neither to ya at the moment.

Almost forgot. You mentioned a change of scenery. That could be a good thing for you. Just be careful if ya go looking for that new scenery. Do not under any circumstances try to hit on your wive's friends/relatives/etc. It will come back to haunt you. Be discreet, be careful, and be discreet again.

I learned all of this from listening to other guys I know who went through divorce one or more times.

And so it goes and maybe it will someday. Nothing lasts forever.


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Stay calm and by no means get a restraining order against you.You and your guns will be FUCKED

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WOW!!!! I can't believe how sensitive you guy's are, I'm genuinely surprized. I guess when it comes to women, men will unite together in spite of their personal differences.

Anyway Petey, Maybe its time to start playing some games of your own just to see if or how your wife responds to certain things.

Why don't you try spicing things up a little in the bedroom, perhaps kinda like when you first met, go back to the honeymoon phase and see if she's a willing participant or not. Try and be as enthusiastic as possible and gauge her response. There are other ways too, check her cell phone and e-mails and any other forms of communication. You've got nothing to lose by being a little sneaky yourself ya know. Before long you'll realise that you were right about her or you were just paranoid and now things are back to the way they used to be.

Ozzy (filling in for Dr Phil)

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Bad news mate sorry to hear it...
Maybe it is nothing, maybe not... precautions are good thats for sure.. hope it works out anyway.

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Petey
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Well...my money and posessions (including guns) are safe.

The updated status appears to be drunken mind loss.

I can find no evidence of anything further than a phone call (trust me I've investigated).

Frankly I'm tired of playing private eye

I've suffered from drunken mind loss too...some here think I suffer from permanent mind loss

Bottom line, at this time, the situation is handled---my assets are secure, no one went to jail, no one got hurt, and there was no ugly confrontation or argument.

Yet one more reminder of how fragile any relationship can be at any moment

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quote:
Originally posted by Petey:
Well...my money and posessions (including guns) are safe.

The updated status appears to be drunken mind loss.

I can find no evidence of anything further than a phone call (trust me I've investigated).

Frankly I'm tired of playing private eye

I've suffered from drunken mind loss too...some here think I suffer from permanent mind loss

Bottom line, at this time, the situation is handled---my assets are secure, no one went to jail, no one got hurt, and there was no ugly confrontation or argument.

Yet one more reminder of how fragile any relationship can be at any moment

Petey,
Ya gotta ask yourself one simple question.
Are YOU happy with the relationship???
If ya answer yes, then stay, but if the answer is NO, then its time to get the fuck out'a there cos there's no point in wasting time when you're just not happy. I know, I spent(wasted) 10 years more than I shoulda, staying with my wife just for the sake of our kids. Time is something that you just can't get back, so bite the bullet and leave if the answer is NO.

Ozzy

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Permanent mind loss?

First of all, ya gotta have a mind to lose. Liberal dipshits such as yerself just bray the kommie pinko fag line with their jingoes and slogans. Ya been doin' it so long that whatever functioning braincells you might have once had are gone for good. Fried and frazzled with all the booze, "meds", and partying ya done with all yer alternative lifestyle "friends".

So Petey de Puffer is back to normal or whatever passes for normal in his world.

And so it goes and who knows, maybe someday one or the other of them really will go.


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Petey I think this shows that in spite of political differences these guys came together on this thread and offered advice and comfort.

Shocked the shit out of me I can tell you.
Sorry you have trouble at home.
Work it out if you can or bail.

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I would tell the Dude to get the Fuck out!Or are you afraid she will kick your pansy ass?
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There's a ton of good advice here Petey. Read it and follow it accordingly. If there's kids involved, be ready for some really ugly battles in court.

JW is correct: nobody winds in these deals. Just take measures to keep the playing field even.

Good luck.........

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just walk away man!
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Nah, walking away is bad advice.

Stick around and let yer soon to be ex-wife and her shyster stick a big hard dick up yer ass and take ya to the cleaners for everything that you own.

By now Petey is used to be violated by big hard dicks anyway. The price one pays for being such a wuss.

And so it goes and so all of it will in a big U-haul.


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As if he really has a wife!!!

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He does have a "wife".

His name is Jamal.....

But Petey is lookin' to divorce Jamal. He has a new boy friend and his name is Buckwheat. I think ya know who I mean.....

And so it goes in Petey's life.


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RB,

What is the faggot equivalent of 'mistress'?

Inquiring minds and all that. Interesting how pffr raises our horizions.

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James,

In prison, the faggot equivalent of "mistress" would be "punk". As in "I've got a punk in my bunk". But "bitch" or "wife" are used too.

The "man" in these homo relationships is called a "stud" or "daddy". And if ya were to ask these convicts if they are queer, the answer would be no. In their warped view of things, there is nothing wrong with sticking yer dick into a faggots ass or mouth. Apparently these idiots don't realize that pitching and catching amount to the same thing.

Committing a homosexual act in the Federal Prison System was a bustable offense. Up to 30 days in the hole if caught in the act. But the unit managers who were in charge of the cell houses routinely would pair up these studs/punks in the same cell when asked to do so. So if I was working a cellhouse on the morning shift and caught them "in the act" while taking the 3:00 AM count, I'd just ignore it. My attitude was that the UM's put them together, let them write 'em up for it. Naturally that never happened....

And so it goes.


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Petey
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Like 'Retarded one' knows all the answers...


First off

does anyone really care what prison bitches are called? Did I miss something by not being fascinated by what 2 retards in a cell together actually do?

Secondly,


Does anyone care (except the retarded one) what prisoners do or how they think?


Finally,

In the end, does it really matter what prisoners do ro do not do to anyone outside the prison system until they are actually released from the system? And, why should I give a shit about the minimum waged jerk-offs asigned to watch these idiots, who are doing the jobs not out of any sense of purpose but rather for the almighty dollar because they do not or cannot get the job at Arby's which would allow them so much more freedom and money and self-respect?

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Damn!!!!!

It looks like I hit a nerve in what is left of Fluff Boy's AIDS infected brain.

Listen up, ya flaming faggot, I was answering a question asked by James, not by some reject from the San Fagcisco PD. Yeah, I know what the queers in prison do and how they act. Some things never change. And you know how the dick lickers in the free world act, ya fuckin' sissy.

Funny that you should mention the wages CO's earn. Yer taxes, that is assuming you do pay taxes on all those quarters you take for performing yer "services" are paying their salaries. So keep on suckin' those dicks because if yer boy Buckwheat gets to be POTUS, he will tax you even more to pay for all his "changes".

I never get tired of saying this. It must suck super extra special bad with pustles and lesions to be you.

And so it goes and maybe one day 'ol Peter Eater will end up in the big house and be Jamal's playmate.


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Damn shame I spose...

one thing I have learned that when you are drunk you actually mean it.... its just that you are loosened up enough to say it.

Good luck with that.... but I'd sure keep a vigil were it me.

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